A novel damping system is developed to address offshore wind turbine tower vibration exacerbated by global warming-induced coastal extreme weather. Through parametric optimization, it stabilizes nacelle displacement under normal loads and reduces responses in diverse wind conditions: 18.8% max bending stress reduction during gusts, 26.3% nacelle displacement mitigation under high turbulence, and 7.9% displacement standard deviation reductions in 50-year extreme winds. A Norwegian wind farm extends tower life by 44% at the tower top and 99.36% at the tower base. Under varying gust angles, it reduces nacelle displacement (4.3%) and bottom bending moment (3.2%), enhancing structural stability. These demonstrate their potential to cut maintenance costs and extend lifetime, which is crucial for offshore wind turbine development.